Today I Was Asked Why I'm Unreasonable

I had to fill out an application today for an accelerator called Unreasonable Institute. They're seeking entrepreneurs in the early education space who are dedicated to improving the lives of millions of low-income kids. One of the questions on the application was...Why Am I Unreasonable? Ha! What a great question! 

So here's my answer: I'm unreasonable because I won't/can't turn my back on the millions of kids who need exactly what Tipitom brings to the table. I feel obligated and motivated to bring this venture to fruition. I have a social responsibility that's based on personal experience, societal need and opportunity. I've passed up multiple career opportunities and sacrificed all I have to stay in the game. I'm the queen of unreasonable! ¿Si o no?

Language Discrimination, Language Diversity and Bias

Discrimination comes in all kinds of forms. Recently I experienced cultural discrimination for speaking Spanish while in Mexico. More specifically while at a social activity during a company retreat, I spoke in Spanish to one of the co-founders of one of my clients. The following day the other co-founder (a non-Spanish speaker) was apparently furious with me for doing so and demonstrated her irritation by mistreating badly. 

I know lots of people have been on the recipient end of someone else's fury over said actions. This occurrence provoked me to think about why some have such a visceral reaction to others speaking a second language. Clearly, some people believe you must be speaking about them in an offensive way. Others may experience some level of personal insecurity when not understanding the language, leading to acts of anger and frustration. 

I've travelled outside the U.S. and I grew up bilingual. However, as a resident of the US I believe our ethnocentric attitude about our culture is the culprit behind language discrimination in the US. Others who say, “Speak English, we’re in America”, frequently express this disposition! I agree one should speak the local language of one's resident country, but what happens when you're fully bilingual? Shouldn’t we all have the freedom to speak English and another language if desired? 

I resigned from working with that client and the went on an amazing trip to Morocco. Morocco has a rich history in trade and is a mecca for diversity and multiculturalism.  In Morocco two languages are spoken officially including Arabic and Berber, and unofficially French. During my eight-day tour of the country through the bustling city of Marrakech, the snow covered mountains of Atlas, the rust-colored dunes of the Sahara desert and the seaside city of Esssaouira; I heard all kinds of local and European languages. I was completely delighted to be around so many international folks expressing themselves in their native tongue and culture. At one point our guide Mohammed said, "to understand a culture, you must understand their language." I couldn't agree more!

In Morocco I learned approximately 10 new words In Arabic. I also learned this community of Islamic believers is deeply connected to their customs and spirituality. "En Shala," (God willing) is an expression commonly used in every day vernacular and one I readily adopted. Each and every time I greeted a Moroccan or Berber in their native tongue, we instantly connected and joy permeated the energy between us. Learning other key phrases, more about their beliefs, religion and customs helped me better communicate and gain insights about some of my own bias regarding Islamic religion and practices.  In the states we hear a lot of inaccurate information about the Muslim community creating a spirit of fear and insecurity. The Muslim people I met in Morocco we’re kind, warm and considerate. New flash: a headscarf doesn’t make you a terrorist. We really must stop making such erroneous assumptions. 

Language is intimately attached to culture and vice versa. Opening up our minds to having a cultural experience through language can be fun, educational and enjoyable. Discovery can happen from a positive disposition about someone else's culture, while arrogance and an ethnocentric attitude can lead to discrimination. In a global culture with a multitude of languages and cultures, let us celebrate our uniqueness as we're all part of the same tribe called - humans. 

Deborah Castillero

Founder, Bilingual Children's Enterprises

www.tipitom.com

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